"We working moms kill ourselves trying to be Martha Stewart and Betty Crocker because we're wracked with mom guilt if we can't give our kids that idyllic childhood..." Sandra Scott Simons, MD "Holiday-Mom Guilt: Is it January Yet?"
A day at the office...
Sometimes people ask me why I focus my blog on "working moms". They say things like, "Aren't we all just moms? I mean all moms work hard. Isn't the term, 'working mom' an oxymoron at best and divisive at worst?" I complete understand their points of view. My response is everyone gets to define themselves how they'd like. What I know is that the term "working mom" resonates with me. I also know that those who also define themselves that way are my tribe!
My tribe includes, Sandra Scott Simons, MD, an ED doctor who wrote an inspired piece entitled,"Holiday-Mom Guilt: Is it January Yet?"about the guilt that often plagues working moms especially during the holiday season. I'd submit that working moms experience that guilt on birthdays, snack days, Sundays, and days when their kids have field trips, when they choose a shower over story time, when they leave their screaming kid at daycare all the while trying to convince themselves that having their kid forcibly removed from their leg in hysteria and leaving that child in that combined fit of abandonment and pain is somehow achieving a greater good.
The screaming is your kid calling bulls--t on your greater good and you really have no good response.
Part of the reason I insist on defining myself as a working mom is because I often need validation from my tribe in a direct way. I need to hear that being a working mom is hard and that it is OK to be conflicted about the entire set-up. For that reason, I receive Google Alerts that help me find these validating stories. Because I think that you might also be in need of encouragement at the end of this first workweek after Thanksgiving, I am sharing these with you.
Daily update ⋅ December 2, 2016
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