A Secret to Success as a Working Mom: Use Dresses to Stay Cool and Stylish in Hot Weather

Greetings from Chaton's World in Pittsburgh, Pennsylvania! My days often start with laundry, early-morning emails, and making my kids a hot breakfast. They often end with late-night homework checks, making Instagram reels, and appearing on Celebrity Court of Public Opinion. Somewhere in between, I’m navigating boardrooms, working towards deadlines, and immersed in the good, bad, and ugly chaos of motherhood and household management. As a working mom of three and a professional carving out space in corporate environments, I share my journey of balancing leadership with loving my family, and I sprinkle it with self-care tips. Here, you’ll find honest reflections, hard-earned lessons, and practical strategies for creating an authentic life that you enjoy. If you’re trying to do it all without losing yourself in the process, you have found your sister in the struggle!  Continue reading to discover some thoughts, hacks, and/or lessons that I have learned from navigating my world.

Key to Success as a Working Mom: Negotiating With Your Partner

Alcohol helps makes negotiations go smoothly...
A couple of years ago, I reviewed a book entitled, Getting to 50/50: How Working Parents Can Have It All. It's a great book that discusses how, in dual income households, having each parent do their fair share is the key to succeeding as a working mom. That may seem like a basic concept for non-parents or single parents. However, as a married working mom, I believe that negotiating with my husband is among the hardest things that I have ever had to do. As you read that, remember, I am an attorney and competed for the Apprentice and was interviewed by Donald Trump!

Working Moms Need to Negotiate With Their Partners



Achieving equity in a household is real work when both parents work unless you have loads of money. I actually spoke to a good older friend this week who said she never asked her husband to do housework and she didn't do it either because she had never been trained to do it. Since I know that she always has an impeccable home, I knew that what she wasn't saying was "I had help". If that is your situation, God bless you and send me some $$$ if you can spare it. For everyone else, check out the link to my book review below and the video where the authors were interviewed. 

Negotiating with your spouse may be hard work, but it is necessary if you want to balance your duties in your stilettos without losing your mind... 

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