A Secret to Success as a Working Mom: Turn Burn Out Into Bliss and Embrace Joy

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Last weekend my youngest was committed to going to the "Water Steps" a man-made water fall in Pittsburgh by the rivers. (Fun Fact: Three rivers converge in Pittsburgh--The Ohio River, The Monongahela River, and the Allegheny River.)  He kept asking. I knew he was serious when he said, "If you won't take me, I'll ask  daddy!" Given that it was highly unlikely that would happen on an unscheduled day, I relented. So, we went. It wasn’t planned in the way most things in my life are. No calendar block. No checklist. No “productive” purpose attached. And, so in some respects it was uncomfortable. And yet, it seemed necessary. It was the idea of my 8-year-old—offered with the kind of urgency only children possess when something is profoundly important to them.
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Celebrating Independence Day While Black

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Mom and son
Celebrating the Fourth of July

Our nation was founded on the ideals that every free man should have the right to life, liberty and the pursuit of happiness. Recent events have shown us that although slavery has been unlawful since 1865, freedom is not experienced in equal measure by all American citizens. Black and brown people remain bound by the systems of power even though the law abolished slavery.

We are confronting very serious questions and critical decisions need to be made. However, in the meantime, we celebrate.
Family celebrating Independence Day

Black People Celebrate Independence Day Too


We celebrate because we know that our forefathers confronted more serious challenges and yet they survived.

We celebrate because we appreciate that our grandparents were smart and worked hard yet they were denied their due and still they sang. 

We celebrate because we understand that our parents sacrificed so that we could have more opportunities and raise our children to dream big.

We celebrate because we are still here, fighting the fight, telling our story, and because of above all else, we are still breathing!

So, this holiday weekend, I stayed with my dad, had breakfast, lunch and dinner, swam at the pool with my family, tried to catch fireflies, laughed, shared stories, and had a great time. And, I was incredibly grateful that I was free to do it. 

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Location: Pittsburgh, PA, USA

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