One Secret to a Working Mom Success: Make Family Events More Enjoyable With Friends

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Better Together: Why Inviting Another Family Makes Activities More Fun #FamilyFun Sometimes family activities can feel like another item on the to-do list. However, doing those activities with another family makes them more fun! Whether it’s a trip to an amusement park , a visit to the local pool , or trip to a pumpkin patch , including another family can multiply the fun in amazing ways. One of my favorite moms to collaborate with is my friend, Ayana Ledford who's pictured above with her daughter Sahar. We have done all of the things listed as seemingly random examples above and here is how including her and her daughter (and sometimes her son too) has made the events more fun. On the date above, Ayana almost left the venue because parking was a nightmare. That said, she hung in there and we would up having a great time!
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Family Chaos Can Be Cured with Ice Cream

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" You can't buy happiness, but you can buy ice cream and that is pretty much the same thing." — Unknown.
There are many moments throughout the day where my kids are fussing, cussing, and running around. The cussing doesn't involve actual curse words because they're little, but includes things like, "STOP IT!!!" "You're being mean!" and the classic, "WAH!!!" 

Those moments are numerous and fill my home with the cacophony of their voices and intense feelings. The bickering can be really frustrating. Sometimes, one will try to get me to choose sides because he or she is confident in his/her "rightness". I can't choose sides of course. Doing so would be like asking me to choose between having a right or left arm--each is equally loved and essential.

Then, when all hope for peace seems gone, they unite around a simple pleasure--a game, a funny moment, or a sweet treat. I don't know about your house, but here at mi casa, ice cream can solve most sources of unhappiness. 
Injured? "Here have some ice cream." Someone hurt your feelings? "Ice cream." Sad for no explicable reason? "How about some ice cream?"

I know that this is like my third ice cream related post of the summer. However, the stress of COVID19 has me seeking out ways to improve our moods and simple pleasures like ice cream, naps, and sunsets have become my favorites.  (In all candor, I also enjoy "adult beverages"!)

How are you managing during these very stressful times? 

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