Equity does not exist in households where women make more!

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Mom with kids on vacation "Female breadwinners face a much higher risk for burnout, infidelity, and divorce."  When She Makes More ,  Farnoosh Torabi Prince is one of my favorite artists. And, I think that it is genius that the beginning of his famous song, "Let's go crazy" mimics a marriage ceremony. It makes you wonder whether he was suggesting that marriage itself was a path to insanity. If you have forgotten the beginning, here you go, "Dearly beloved, We are gathered here today, To get through this thing called "life" Electric word, life, It means forever and that's a mighty long time, But I'm here to tell you  There's something else..." He writes the afterworld in the blank. However, a recent study suggests that "marriage" could be inserted in its place, especially marriage for high earning women. 
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Winter Solstice Lesson for Moms with Young Children

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Celebrating life

Today is December 21st,  the Winter solstice.  It is a time to put old things away and start anew. As someone who called me today said, "It is a time to say goodbye to everything that hasn't been working for you and embrace what you want in your life!" 

When this person called I was elbow deep in cleaner scrubbing my tub, my kids were fighting and I just realized my three year old had pooped his pants. I had also picked up my husband's dirty clothes off of the floor for the umpteenth time. The combination of factors is probably why the deep thoughts and new age thinking hit me different. And, although most days I strive to be at my highest vibration and am able to receive such things, today, I rejected it from the pit of my soul and thought, "Why is it that most of the deep thinkers don't have young kids?!"

And while I realize that yesterday had significant cosmic significance, it also had practical significance too. I am a firm believer that your circumstances shouldn't define you. However, I also acknowledge that you aren't immune from them. Where you are at a given moment in time, what you're confronted with, and what your responsibilities are affect you. And, until they are doling out magic wands, you may not be able to say goodbye to the things not working for you. Still, I don't think you have to in order to be happy. Instead, identify how to be happy anyhow.

Winter Solstice Lesson for Moms with Young Children

My advice is this. Figure out what you need to do to weather the storms that may be a part of your reality.  Because here's the thing. If we could simply say goodbye to storms, they wouldn't make umbrellas. 



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Unknown said…
Cheers to being able to pull an umbrella out if you need it. I agree.
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Chaton T. Turner said…
Thank you for commenting! It's always nice to know that I am not alone in my thoughts!
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