One Secret to a Working Mom Success: Make Family Events More Enjoyable With Friends

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Better Together: Why Inviting Another Family Makes Activities More Fun #FamilyFun Sometimes family activities can feel like another item on the to-do list. However, doing those activities with another family makes them more fun! Whether it’s a trip to an amusement park , a visit to the local pool , or trip to a pumpkin patch , including another family can multiply the fun in amazing ways. One of my favorite moms to collaborate with is my friend, Ayana Ledford who's pictured above with her daughter Sahar. We have done all of the things listed as seemingly random examples above and here is how including her and her daughter (and sometimes her son too) has made the events more fun. On the date above, Ayana almost left the venue because parking was a nightmare. That said, she hung in there and we would up having a great time!
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A Secret to Working Mom's Success: Stay Focused

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Greetings from Pittsburgh, Pennsylvania! Things have been busy. I am still a working mom of three, working full time who is trying to make a difference. I do a lot of things and try to be present so that I can learn from them. I share them on this blog so that we can learn together. Below are some thoughts, hacks, and/or lessons that I have learned from navigating my world.

Today's lesson was, stay focused.


(This post was in the archives and not posted but the lessons remain salient.)

Like most working moms, I get by through a series of decisions.  

Sometimes I am jealous of the bloggers who seem to have their lives staged to create blog posts that portray their lives as full of family, fun, punctuated by great fashion sense. Not only is my life not staged, my life keeps lifeing, and surprises, hiccups, and accidents occur. I don't know about other bloggers but that is how my life rolls. 

If you follow me on social media you may be thinking. She generally looks put together and does some cool things. And that is true. My life does have its fair share of glossy images and cool things. And when my posts portray that life, it is my truth at that moment. That said, my life sometimes includes endless piles of laundry, incomplete things to-do lists, and exploding eggs...

Today while upstairs getting my kids ready for the day I heard an animal rummaging down below. I instantly went into "super mommy mode". I projected confidence and strength and went to investigate. I couldn't let the kids know how terrified I was about what I might find. The truth is, some people love animals and I tolerate them. So, believing that an uninvited one was in my kitchen tops my list of worst things that could possibly happen.

When I got downstairs, instead of finding an animal I found a pot sizzling, eggs that had exploded, and the smell of burnt eggs. Then, I remembered. Before deciding to get the kids ready, I decided to boil eggs for our nightly salad. Well, I burnt the eggs. They exploded and stunk up the house.

There really isn't more to say except, sometimes, "Exploding Eggs" happen.

Better luck next time!





Location: Pittsburgh, PA, USA

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