Let’s use the spirit of Halloween to Help Us Be More Human All Year ‘Round 

Mom celebrating the Halloween spirit Halloween is a season of fun, costumes , and candy . Indeed, it has become a favorite of mine. The kids get excited about their costumes, and spending the evening visiting neighbors and receiving candy in response to their declaration of, " Trick or Treat "! All around the country, neighbors open their doors and give candy to anyone who shows up seeking it. Upon reflection, it is a beautiful tradition that embodies the generosity of the human spirit. I was talking to someone yesterday and commented about how much I have grown to enjoy it and wished that it could last for more than one night.

The End of School As We Know it, COVID19 Lessons

Family enjoying picnic

So, the school year is finally over and I am ecstatic! The above photo is of our celebration. Balancing work, school, and the stressors of day-to-day life combined with the additional stress of being Black in America during this time has been quite a lot. (Click here to read about our experience.) 

Still, I cannot help but be proud of my older kids. Considering everything, they are the rock stars. They are the ones who did their work and focused. And, yes, the focus required prodding and there were sometime tears.  Still, they kept at it every day. They dealt with mommy school and they thrived.

Boy graduating Kindergarten

Our daughter completed fourth grade. We began her virtual school five weeks before her school had anything. We did math, language arts and science. We read a novel, did equations, and experiments. We supplemented with YouTube and online classes we could find. In a word, we made it work. She even discovered new talents, which she mentioned in an online interview that was also aired on KDKA. (To see it, click here.) 

Our son completed Montesorri Kindergarten during quarantine, as you can see in the above photo. (I have know idea why he took a knee, but I was proud.) He rallied, with a little help. :-) He was less than enthused about being without his structure, teacher, and friends. We tried to mimic his classroom as much as possible though. We bought Montessori equipment, gave him choices, and had circle time. I know that I am not the teacher that his gifted teacher is. I shouted when I should have smiled. I used bribery and other inappropriate motivational tactics because I was working while teaching. 

If you didn't know. that is a nearly impossible task.   

We went through this like so many other families. However, I am still proud of my brood. We averted failure and tragedy. We learned and loved. We took each day as it came. And like Gloria Gainor would say, "We survived!!! Hey! Hey!" As I mentioned previously, the baby seems to love this new set up.  (To read about the baby living his best life, click here.) While I know that the day of reckoning will come, we shall enjoy this time while we have it.

Here's to summer!


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