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Greetings from Chaton's World in Pittsburgh, Pennsylvania! My days often start with laundry, early-morning emails, and making my kids a hot breakfast. They often end with late-night homework checks, making Instagram reels, and appearing on Celebrity Court of Public Opinion. Somewhere in between, I’m navigating boardrooms, working towards deadlines, and immersed in the good, bad, and ugly chaos of motherhood and household management. As a working mom of three and a professional carving out space in corporate environments, I share my journey of balancing leadership with loving my family, and I sprinkle it with self-care tips. Here, you’ll find honest reflections, hard-earned lessons, and practical strategies for creating an authentic life that you enjoy. If you’re trying to do it all without losing yourself in the process, you have found your sister in the struggle!  Continue reading to discover some thoughts, hacks, and/or lessons that I have learned from navigating my world.
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The End of School As We Know it, COVID19 Lessons

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Family enjoying picnic

So, the school year is finally over and I am ecstatic! The above photo is of our celebration. Balancing work, school, and the stressors of day-to-day life combined with the additional stress of being Black in America during this time has been quite a lot. (Click here to read about our experience.) 

Still, I cannot help but be proud of my older kids. Considering everything, they are the rock stars. They are the ones who did their work and focused. And, yes, the focus required prodding and there were sometime tears.  Still, they kept at it every day. They dealt with mommy school and they thrived.

Boy graduating Kindergarten

Our daughter completed fourth grade. We began her virtual school five weeks before her school had anything. We did math, language arts and science. We read a novel, did equations, and experiments. We supplemented with YouTube and online classes we could find. In a word, we made it work. She even discovered new talents, which she mentioned in an online interview that was also aired on KDKA. (To see it, click here.) 

Our son completed Montesorri Kindergarten during quarantine, as you can see in the above photo. (I have know idea why he took a knee, but I was proud.) He rallied, with a little help. :-) He was less than enthused about being without his structure, teacher, and friends. We tried to mimic his classroom as much as possible though. We bought Montessori equipment, gave him choices, and had circle time. I know that I am not the teacher that his gifted teacher is. I shouted when I should have smiled. I used bribery and other inappropriate motivational tactics because I was working while teaching. 

If you didn't know. that is a nearly impossible task.   

We went through this like so many other families. However, I am still proud of my brood. We averted failure and tragedy. We learned and loved. We took each day as it came. And like Gloria Gainor would say, "We survived!!! Hey! Hey!" As I mentioned previously, the baby seems to love this new set up.  (To read about the baby living his best life, click here.) While I know that the day of reckoning will come, we shall enjoy this time while we have it.

Here's to summer!


Location: Pittsburgh, PA, USA

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