One Secret to Success for a Working Mom, Expand Your Village (Jack and Jill of America)

Jack and Jill of America member and her daughter Recently, I have become keenly aware that good kids are created by accident. They become good because someone made a concerted effort to pour positive things into them--things like, honor, discipline and respect for others. These qualities are taught through lessons and by observation. For that reason, I have been actively considering how to give my children more examples of people who embody those qualities.  Indeed, raising my children to become good people is my most important job.

Celebrating my daughter's birthday

Little girl on a bridge

My daughter's eleventh birthday was this past Saturday. Eleven years ago my heart discovered a love it never imagined and she has enriched every day since. She is her own person. She is smart, sassy, and stylish. I get prouder every day. 

She has accomplished several things during her brief life. Some of those accomplishments are impressive--like appearing in two commercials. Some of those accomplishments are mundane--like learning to make her bed every day. That said, her most amazing accomplishment is transforming me into someone who is willing to open her heart up to an incomparable and indescribable love. 


She made me a mama. She inspires me with her fearless. She has made me more thoughtful. She has challenged me to live more authentically. And, she has made me better. 





This past summer, we vacationed together in Puerto Rico, just us girls. She amazed me with her maturity and her coolness. Being with her was so much fun! I got to experience her in a completely different way.

It turns out she loves Sprite, watching cartoons and sleeping in. She also enjoys a good adventure and doesn't mind being inconvenienced and lost in a rain forest so long as she is with people she likes and there is the promise of ice cream or candy at some point afterwards.

It was nice to be in a different surrounding with her without the demands of work, her father, or the younger children. I am excited to experience more girls' trips with her in the future!

I could write so much more about her. However, the words--even the best ones--wouldn't adequately describe her. So, I'll stop. Instead, I'll ask a favor of you. Please join me in saluting this amazing human. I am in awe of who she is and looking forward to continuing to witness who she is becoming! Please drop her a birthday blessing below in the comments!


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