One Secret to a Working Mom Success: Make Family Events More Enjoyable With Friends

Better Together: Why Inviting Another Family Makes Activities More Fun
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Sometimes family activities can feel like another item on the to-do list. However, doing those activities with another family makes them more fun!

Whether it’s a trip to an amusement park, a visit to the local pool, or trip to a pumpkin patch, including another family can multiply the fun in amazing ways. One of my favorite moms to collaborate with is my friend, Ayana Ledford who's pictured above with her daughter Sahar. We have done all of the things listed as seemingly random examples above and here is how including her and her daughter (and sometimes her son too) has made the events more fun.

On the date above, Ayana almost left the venue because parking was a nightmare. That said, she hung in there and we would up having a great time!


1. Having Playmates for your kids makes is more fun!  

Kids love a good playdate, at least mine do. They are naturally social, and having friends around makes everything more fun, even though they have siblings. I find that when more kids are added to the mix, there are fewer fights. Fewer sighs. Fewer exclamation of, “I’m bored!”. That makes the event more enjoyable for the moms and gives us more time to relax or connect.

2. Sharing the experience with another mom, lessens the load.

Parenting is easier when you’re not doing it alone. Inviting another mom lets me share responsibilities like bringing snacks and taking kids to the restroom. Also, sometimes when left to my own devices, I can be a bit wound up. Taking three kids in three different age groups with varying interests around town did not relax me at all. However, sharing the experience with another mom helps me keep all of the kids occupied because we can divide and conquer--group the kids by age and each mom takes a group. Indeed, not to knock men, but having a second mom at an activity is truly amazing! 

3. Other moms can help you relax!

When I am not responsible for entertaining all of the kids and keeping them safe, I can relax, a bit. It's a true gift.  

4. Building a Stronger Village

Spending time with other families fosters a sense of community and support. It’s a chance to swap stories, share advice, and build friendships that extend beyond the activity itself.

5. More Laughter, More Memories

Let’s face it—more people often means more fun. Group activities tend to be livelier, filled with spontaneous moments that become cherished memories. Whether it’s a group singalong, a silly game, or a shared sunset, these are the moments that stick.

So next time you're planning something fun, consider inviting a friend and her family to join you.  I promise you will be grateful you did and not sorry! After all, parenting is a journey best traveled together.


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