One Secret to a Working Mom's Success: Keep Standing

Me, standing in Barbados Those of us who live our lives out loud on the internet subject ourselves to scrutiny. Some comment, "Nobody's life is perfect. These posts must be fake," Those making those comments might even be close to us because they "know our business" and they whisper and gossip and say, "she's so fake".  To those who may read my blog and make such comments, (the trolls) know that I hear you, see you, and completely disagree. 

Lessons Learned from my Toddler

Like most moms I am convinced that my baby is blessed with mystical powers. She has been the most wonderful addition to both of our families.  It is as if we were all waiting for her to be complete and didn’t know it. Even though she does not speak English yet, and we are unable to understand her wonderfully melodic language, she has taught us quite a lot. 

Before she arrived I was quite capable of rushing through a day performing tasks without taking the time to have any serious reflection. Now, she makes me pause. It's hard to change a dirty diaper without paying attention! 
Also, the wonder with which she greets the world every day reminds me that it can be a magical place. She has also reminded me that every day is an opportunity to experience great joy.
On this particular Sunday while she is napping I am reflecting on things she has taught me.  Here are some of the lessons in no particular order.

1.       Banana can be a perfectly acceptable hair pomade.

2.       One sock is somehow better than two.

3.       Shoes are optional, and generally a nuisance.

4.       If you fall against an inanimate object, hitting and yelling at it makes you feel better.

5.       A more perfect world is only one nap away.

6.       Food off of someone else’s plate always tastes better.  It’s a fact.

7.       Sitting still is for losers. Climbing up the stairs repeatedly is where the action is.

8.       A kiss from someone you love can make everything better.

9.       Sometimes the package is just as much fun as the present.

10.   Every day is an opportunity to grow, learn, and laugh.
(The photo is from the playground. It looks like she's paying homage to Michael Jordan!)

Here’s to continuing to taking the time to reflect!
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Comments

RAHKed said…
Thanks for the follow, I'm returning the follow. I must say your list of reflections cracked me up but I can't deny they are spot on! Kids teach us so much!
momto8 said…
You are enjoying your daughter...a blessing for all of you!