Equity does not exist in households where women make more!

Mom with kids on vacation "Female breadwinners face a much higher risk for burnout, infidelity, and divorce."  When She Makes More ,  Farnoosh Torabi Prince is one of my favorite artists. And, I think that it is genius that the beginning of his famous song, "Let's go crazy" mimics a marriage ceremony. It makes you wonder whether he was suggesting that marriage itself was a path to insanity. If you have forgotten the beginning, here you go, "Dearly beloved, We are gathered here today, To get through this thing called "life" Electric word, life, It means forever and that's a mighty long time, But I'm here to tell you  There's something else..." He writes the afterworld in the blank. However, a recent study suggests that "marriage" could be inserted in its place, especially marriage for high earning women. 

Mommy Mondays: Mondays can be a Special Kind of Crazy

As a working mom, experiencing a Monday is kind of like living in the Twilight Zone. This morning I had a meeting downtown at 8:30 AM.  The meeting was at a different place and earlier than I usually work. Since I live near downtown and it was a nice day I decided to walk. I was excited to walk because usually I drive to work. Also, I was proud of myself since walking was a green choice.

Walking took planning.

Walking meant that I had to wear flats and I had to select clothes that went with them. I have a lot of clothes, but at 5’2” I usually wear stilettos.  However, there’s no way that I could teeter all the way to the meeting in heels.  I settled on a pair of persimmon colored Franco Sarto loafers with a slight heel. They had rubber soles so they were perfect. I found an olive, Marc New York and paired it with a striped blazer. I was excited that I found a good outfit and shoes that I wouldn’t mind wearing all day instead of lugging a pair of shoes with me. When you’re walking you don’t want to carry anything unnecessary.

Selecting the outfit took time.  Also, because I am me and there are always things that need to be done at my house I did about twenty other things before leaving the house.  After doing those things I looked at my watch and knew that I had to walk really fast!

So I dashed out of the house with conviction. Then I hit a road block. The fastest way to downtown is out of the back of my community. However, when I reached the back gate to my community, I didn’t have the key to get out. I panicked and said words that would have gotten the toddler spanked! Then, miracles of miracles, a neighbor appeared. I asked him whether he had his key. I had never seen him before and he thought that I had parked illegally and was trying to cut through our community. After addressing his concerns, he obliged my request and opened the gate.  Then, I took off!

As I power walked to work I imagined that I looked a lot like those odd walkers in the Olympics—a vision of hip swaying and awkwardness.  I was impressed by my speed though. And as luck would have it I got lucky at the intersections.  I was also impressed by how comfortable the shoes were. Why did I endure that instead of driving? I have learned that downtown traffic is unpredictable and the parking garages often say “ Lease Only” at the entrance. I surmised that I would have more control on foot. I was right!

I arrived at my building, got through surgery and blotted the sweat off of my in the elevator. When the elevator arrived at my floor I gracefully glided off and entered the conference room on time. I sat in my chair very smug and proud at all that I had accomplished that morning. I even got an unexpected work out!

Ahh, Mondays!

Jacket, dress and the reliable shoes. Andre, the toddler and I went for a run after work and I forgot to take a photo while I was dressed!



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